Living the Examined Life

29 Years Old Today!

2012-01-20T11:55:00.000-08:00

The Tradition Continues - 4 years

2012-01-06T09:35:00.000-08:00

January 5, 2012

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Merry Christmas from us!

2011-12-22T14:34:00.000-08:00

Here's a little joke for my fellow ADP cohorts, "From Us to You with Love!"

This Christmas season has been interesting for many reasons:
1. Working at a church around Christmas, puts a new spin on things
2. House to decorate
3. Our first real Christmas tree
4. Performing in a mainstage Christmas show with 16 child actors. Eek!
5. Finding warm clothes to cover the little baby bump! (And I realize, I haven't offically announced that news to the blog world, but, yep, I'm 5 months pregnant! Guess I should do a blog about that, huh?)
6. Dog sitting Yoda and Caramel for the Watkins

All of these things have pros and cons and I have experienced them all this season. Unfortunately, the cons have made some white Christmas days blue, but we always stay optimistic around the holidays, right?

Jen and I just had a conversation how it is just so hard to keep up with soceity's idea of what we should look like, act like and do during Christmas. Normal, every-day life is hard enough, but throw in presents, baking, shopping and work and WHAM!...you're skating on thin ice of insanity!

A woman I'm performing in the Christmas show with told me that they don't decorate, don't do presents, don't do anything typical, so that they can really focus on Christ and celebrating the Nativity each Christmas. WOW! I was taken a little aback when I heard that. No tree? No lights? No wrapping paper? Initially, I felt sad for her and her family, but then I was totally reminded that that's probably what it SHOULD be for Christians. That's why I love Charlie Brown Christmas so much, Linus reads Luke 2 and then says, "That's what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown."

As I spend my last Christmas without a child, I hope and pray that I can always take a minute to breath into my soul the true meaning of Christmas. I hope you'll do the same. If not, what's the point of the whole season any ways.

Love to you and yours!

Home Sweet Home: the exterior

2011-09-30T13:20:00.000-07:00

On June 28th, Mr. B and I closed on our very first house. We had a nice relator (recommended from church members) and an even AWESOMER (yes, I'm using that word) loan officer, Erna Hay at Cornerstone Mortgage (also recommend to us from a friend).

If I can back up a bit, I should say that this decision was not taken lightly. We obviously saved, planned and prayed about it for...well...since we got married. It has always been a dream of mine to own a home. Of course, my dreams were pretty big: River Oaks, 5 bedrooms, pool, etc. (Cue the laughter.) Yeah, pretty big. But my dreams were happily fulfilled with our little one-story, 3 bedrooms, 1500 sq ft house in Katy.

The process went so smoothly from loan approval, searching to closing. When we found it, it was on the second visit out house hunting. B saw the house on har.com and said it had only been on the market for a few days. We immediately contacted our relator and because we were so eager, she wasn't available to show us the house that weekend, so we went with her assistant. Our prayer was that if it was the right house, we'd know. Well, you can guess what happened...

Our house was in wonderful condition with a new roof and new a/c. And was only on the market a week before we put in an offer. Perfect size for a small family and in a location that was very family friendly. The price was right and we just had good vibes the moment we walked through the door.

So enough talk, here are some shots of our exterior:

(Didn't really do too much with the exterior. Added the flag and front door wreath. YAY for finally having a garage to pull in to. I'm thinking of painting the door red. How fun would that be? Also, please pardon the grass. Texas has experienced the worst drought in it's history.)

(The view from our front door, a middle school. Some people might not like it but we love seeing the guys practice football and the parents picking up their kids. So far, traffic is not a problem. They're in school before we even head out. Plus, it's comforting knowing the school police are always near.)

(Our spacious backyard. Below the trees they had an amazing swingset for their two boys. We were hoping they would leave it since those things are hard to transport, but alas. A family friend is giving us his old grill, so I can wait to hang out back here and smell the burgers cookin'.)

So that's the exterior of our home. Come on over if you're in the area!

Don't Hate Me Blogworld

2011-09-23T09:47:00.001-07:00

I know, I know. Who am I and what am I doing here? Well, this IS my blog after all and I thought I'd dust off a ~~few~~ LOT of cobwebs that have been collecting here for the past few months. And trust me, I hear you all thinking, "Well, it's about time!" or "WHAT?!?! She's still alive?" All I can say is, I have some mighty good excuses which I promise to reveal in these next few posts.

EXCUSE #1 - We moved!!
Yep, we moved out of our cute apartment to live the suburban life. We had lived in #43D for three and a half years and really loved it. The complex is made up of individually owned apartments, so a lot of older residents retire there, aka quite neighbors. The location within the complex was perfect for Mr. B and me because it was in the middle, next to a swimming pool. (Ironically though, we never ONCE swam in the pool.)

And in honor of us moving out of #43D, I took some pictures of what we will and will NOT miss about this apartment.

1. The frig door opened right against the wall. Now imagine, when I took this picture, my butt was up against the counter. Every time we opened the frig door, we I (cus B is so skinny) had to do the "shrinking woman/suck in gut" trick.

My dad looked at it to see if it was a reversable frig door, but, alas, it wasn't. For 3 1/2 years, we put up with maneuvering around our little two person kitchen. Heaven forbid we have people over because we had to practically do a sign in/sign out list of people who could be in the kitchen at one time.

On a happier note: I did like the red and white checkered wallpaper. A little retro. A little fun.

2. The next thing that I will not miss is the handle on our toilet.

We had to hold the handle on the toilet to make sure that it flushed, but then, make sure that it didn't stick and stay down. When this happened it would just run and run.

I felt a little bad for company because on a few embarrassing occasions, someone would come up to me and say, "I couldn't get the toilet to flush." I also had my supersonic ears on whenever someone came over, because inevitably, the handle for stick and the toilet would be running forever.

3. During the first two years, our thermostat would not stay on "automatic." It would either be "On" or "Off." That basically meant it was either a sauna or iceberg. In all honesty, we didn't care too much. We weren't flipping the electric bill, but it did cause some uncomfortable nights of either being too hot or too cold.

I will say, when new management took over, they did replace the thermostat which solved all problems. (sigh) I will miss not paying electricity though.

Just a few things that I will and will not miss. Like I said, Jason and I had some awesome times in the apartment and I'm sure, like most couples, the first place you live together will always be special and memorable.

So, where did we move to you ask? Well....WE BOUGHT A HOUSE! (cheers and firecrackers) We love our little home and pictures and a tour are coming soon. In the meantime here is a little sneak peak:

Pretty exciting, huh? See, I told you I had a good excuse!

Nice to see you again blogworld!

To clarify

2011-03-29T11:54:00.001-07:00

After reading my blog, my beloved thought I should clarify and stop any potential rumors of my being pregnant. Nope, sorry, not with child.

What I would like to share is that this Thursday, we are meeting with a loan officer/broker on beginning the process of buying a house. (Wow, so weird to actually write that.) I guess it wouldn't be "beginning the process" since we've already been pre-qualified and such. On Thursday we're going to finally meet with them, face to face, and go over the condition of the loan.

It's very scary and very exciting. I've dreamed of a place of my own for a long time, probably ever since I first saw that little cottage and the illustrations in the book Amy the Dancing Bear by Carly Simon.

The illustrations are fabulous in this book that I hardly ever read the book. The basic story is that Amy doesn't want to go to bed. She wants to stay up and dance. She convinces her mother to let her stay up with different excuses, "the moon is just at the right spot in the sky," or "the fireflies are glowing outside my window." Reluctantly, her mother agrees each time by saying, "When I get finished with the dishes..." or "By the time I'm done with my bath...."

Because they are bears, their cottage is very log cabin-esque. Hanging vines and flowers are in each room and comfort and romance ooze through this book. LOVE IT!

I can't wait to have my own romantic, cozy cottage. And someday, I too will have my own little "Amy bear" to dance with...

Could be. Who knows?

2011-03-22T11:51:00.000-07:00

Yep, I changed the look of my blog. It was time. Things are beginning to happen in my life, BIG CHANGES, and I wanted my blog to reflect that. (Don't worry. I'll announce those changes as they happen, but right now, nothing to report.)

As I redesigned my blog, I was thinking of the West Side Story song, 'Something's Coming.' It kind of explains how I feel right now:

Could be!
Who knows?
There's something due any day;
I will know right away,
Soon as it shows.
It may come cannonballing down through the sky,
Gleam in its eye,
Bright as a rose!

Who knows?
It's only just out of reach,
Down the block, on a beach,
Under a tree.
I got a feeling there's a miracle due,
Gonna come true,
Coming to me!

Could it be? Yes, it could.
Something's coming, something good,
If I can wait!
Something's coming, I don't know what it is,
But it is
Gonna be great!

With a click, with a shock,
Phone'll jingle, door'll knock,
Open the latch!
Something's coming, don't know when, but it's soon;
Catch the moon,
One-handed catch!

Around the corner,
Or whistling down the river,
Come on, deliver
To me!
Will it be? Yes, it will.
Maybe just by holding still,
It'll be there!

Come on, something, come on in, don't be shy,
Meet a guy,
Pull up a chair!
The air is humming,
And something great is coming!
Who knows?
It's only just out of reach,
Down the block, on a beach,
Maybe tonight . . .

New Artist...at least to me

2011-03-21T17:59:00.000-07:00

When did I stop buying CDs? Somewhere between last week and 1999, I stopped. Every Christmas, I usually get the musical CD I ask for from my parents, but that's about it. When I was in high school, and a little into college, I had a tradition of purchasing the CD of the best "New Musical" Tony winner, however, stopped when Avenue Q, Jersey Boys and Spring Awakening made me pause and think before buying.

Well, as I was surfing one of my beloved blogs, Nie Nie Dialogues I discovered a new Indie Artist that I was immediately drawn too. Mindy Gledhill has that soft, easy-listening, yet deeply insightful vibe and I completely am digging her. So I bought her CD. YAY! NEW CD! The curse is broken!

Enjoy her newest video for "Whole Wide World" from her Album Anchor. The two girls running with her in the front are actually the daughters of Nie Nie and make some appearances in the video with their mom. So fun!

Please excuse me....I'm going to go get a bowl of strawberry shortcake ice cream and watch the video for the 100th time.....

To Facebook, or not to Facebook....

2011-02-24T13:55:00.000-08:00

....THAT IS THE QUESTION!

Just last week, I decided to join the ranks of Facebook. Jason had one, I would log on at least once a day as him, but after awhile, got a little guilty about doing it. It wasn't that he didn't mind, I just wanted to respect his privacy and space. So, I fell into the temptation.

I just didn't like hearing about things after the fact, or missing pictures and information that my friends were posting. Big events were happening and I wasn't apart of it.

WOW, as I'm writing this, I'm realizing how much I wanted to belong, be a part of the "group." We all feel this way, don't we? We all have that inner need to belong, to be accepted, to see that people want to be our friends.

Well, all that analysis aside, I joined. I'm a groupie or junkie, which ever way you want to put it. I'm still learning the ropes but I enjoy the ability to voice or write something on Facebook as me instead of Jason. I am still weary of revealing too much info, but, HECK, that's what this blog is for any ways. HA!

Look #4 - Sexy

2011-01-31T19:35:00.000-08:00

I had to take a hiatus from the blog due to work this weekend and feeling pretty crappy the whole time, physically and a little emotionally. So, that fast forwards us to today. My next look:

LOOK #4: Sexy (a la Stepford Wife)

Top - Stein Mart; $8.96

Skirt - Stein Mart, $8.96

Shoes - Steve Madden

Watch - Vivani

Dinner - Meatballs

Look #3 - Minimalistic

2011-01-27T20:31:00.000-08:00

When I walked into the Thursday, ladies lunch/bible study, Sarah said, "You look like..." and then she stop. I replied, "Please say Audrey Hepburn!" "No," she said, "Danny Kaye in that one musical about choreography." White Christmas. HA!

I'll take it though. The minimalistic look is so nice, classic and easy. Every woman should try it, but the key is to keep it classy, not sloppy. Make sure the clothes fit properly and not too loosely.

LOOK #3 - Minimalistic - of or pertaining to someone or something advocating smallness.

Turtleneck - Gap
Jeans - Forever21
Shoes - Steven Madden
Earrings - Mom

Two things about the picture: 1) please pardon my cheesy version of a model and 2) I really look my mom in the 70's in this pic.

Look #2 - Athletic

2011-01-27T07:14:00.001-08:00

Believe it or not, in my occupation there are many moments where I need to dress for comfort. Today, or yesterday rather, was one of those days. In the morning, I had to be the company's mascot at the children's theater, the joy of being short, and then in the afternoon I taught a musical theater class in Spring Branch ISD. No skirts or pretty dresses for me. Instead...

LOOK #2 - Athletic: physically active

Don't ask where these clothes came from. Who knows?

Look #1 - Bohemian

2011-01-25T15:28:00.000-08:00

Do boys like being boys? I'm sure they do. So much of who they are, are God-given traits: competitiveness, comradeship, adventure, etc. Well, I definitely enjoy being a girl. I love making things more beautiful. I love supporting and assisting with tasks and I definitely love feeling confident in what I wear.

What we wear speaks volumes. (and I think that's an understatement) I love What Not To Wear on TLC because of its main principle: yes, you are NOT what you wear; however, your fashion does communicate to those around you.

By no means, would I EVER call myself a 'fashionista.' Please shoot me if I do, but, this girl does love clothes. Putting on clothes that make me feel good, honestly make me, well, feel good. In college, I would always dress up for a test or exam to make me feel more confident and, to this day, I still do that. This time instead of tests, it's meetings or because I'm actually having low self-esteem/confidence.

All this to say, being a female affords me more styles and options. Sucks for you, guys! Women can dress in so many different ways, in so many different pieces. For me, I can almost 'be' someone different depending on what I wear. (A little insight into why I'm an actress, I guess.) So, I've decided to do a little documentation of my outfits each day. I have many close girlfriends that comment on my number of clothes/outfits. Some swear I could practically go a year without wearing the exact, complete outfit twice. While that's an interesting observation, I don't think I'm up for that challenge; however, this week, I will purposely try to dress in different styles with the intention of demonstrating how women can have a variety of range in what they wear.

LOOK #1 - Bohemian: a person, as a writer or artist, who lives and acts free of regard of conventional rules and practices; a Gypsy.

Dress - Old Navy
Sweater - Macy's
Boots - Steven Madden
White Leggings, Hoop Earrings - Target
Grey Shirt - Who knows?

My 28th Year - The First Day

2011-01-21T15:14:00.000-08:00

Love Letter to My Husband

2011-01-06T18:47:00.000-08:00

I wish I was as poetic as you in expressing the utter joy it makes me feel to be your wife. Every dream that I ever had was of you. Every future plan I ever concocted as a little girl had you in it. With every guy I've ever dated, I've always known they were just a stepping stone to you.

You're not perfect and we've been through our shares of ups and downs, like most couples, but as I've told you before, my love for you is deeper than you can imagine because it comes from God above. I am very serious about the covenant I took before God on Jan. 5, 2008. You and I will always be one family, one unit, one couple just simply trying to live their life for God the best they can.

If I could wish something for you during your 28th year of life, I wish God to boldly shape you into the spiritual leader I know you to be. Ignore the insecurities and fears you have because they are not of Him. Continue what you're doing in leading this family into the future. I promise to always run with you. And in this big year of 'what ifs,' know that I'll be holding your hand the whole time, physically and metaphorically.

So, my birthday ~~boy~~ man, enjoy the rest of your night playing video games and eating those Reeses pieces. You deserve it...............just don't stay up too late. :)

I love you!

3 Years

2011-01-05T15:34:00.000-08:00

We have a little tradition every anniversary to take a picture outside of the church where we were married. I love traditions and look forward to this every year. It was interesting this year when I had to meet Jason there for lunch because he works there now.

So, if you'd like to see the pictures from year's past check out last year's blog.

Enjoy our third anniversary picture. We think it's kind of special.

Start of a new year

2011-01-04T14:28:00.000-08:00

These past few days I have been really thinking about what I want my first blog of 2011 to be or what it should say, lists? resolutions? plans? I couldn't decide, so I'm taken the easy road and giving you a link to my gal, Kristin Chenoweth, being interviewed on broadway.com.

Why not bring in the year with a little Cheno, Broadway and Toddlers & Tiaras? "I want my nie, nie!"

Enjoy!

http://www.broadway.com/shows/promises-promises/video/153363/show-people-episode-1-kristin-chenoweth/

(Sorry, I got lazy and just copied the link! It's totally worth it, though!)

6 Days of Christmas

2010-12-29T09:18:00.000-08:00

I just returned from my 6 day Christmas vacation. Jason and I drove to KY which was very interesting and very long. We had a wonderful time seeing family but this, by far, was the most crazy Christmas I've ever had. Too explain, I've written (to the tune of 12 Days of Christmas) a song about my vacation:

1. On the FIRST day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, a hospital containing my Daddy. (The morning of the 23rd, my mom called to say my dad had a high fever and they were taking him to the ER. This would not seem like a big deal to most people, but my father NEVER gets sick. Only once in my entire life did I ever see him sick. In the ER they tested his blood pressure and it was something ridiculous like 80/40 and because it was so low, his kidneys were beginning to shut down. They immediately whisked him to ICU and put him on all sorts of IVs and gave him a spinal tap. What they determined is that he got Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever from a tick when he was hunting the weekend before Christmas. HOLY TA-MOLY! Now, a week later, he's still there but last night, his fever finally was nonexistent. All this to say, the drive on the 23rd was the hardest thing in the world; however, my mom and brother assured me that they would look after him. Please keep him in your prayers.)

2. On the second day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, two snowy boots... (It snowed in KY almost the entire time we were there which, technically, gave me my first white Christmas. I say 'technically' because it has snowed in Houston before but nothing like this. I was in winter heaven. With the picture, please pardon my no make-up and pjs. I was just too excited.)
3. On the third day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, 3-D glasses... (We saw Narnia:Voyage of the Dawn Treader. Neither Bergstrom and I had read the book, so we enjoyed not knowing what would happen next. Great movie. Check it out.)

4. On the fourth day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, 4 silly siblings... (We always enjoy our time with Josh and Dina. Can't wait to see them again! And in case you're wondering, Jason and Josh are twins. Don't you love Boss, their sheltie, sniffing the bow? Speaking of Boss...)
5. On the fifth day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, five million dog hairs! (It was so fun playing with Boss. He's a bundle of energy and Jason couldn't get enough of him. He really didn't shed that bad. I just couldn't think of anything for the fifth day. HA!)

6. On the sixth day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me, SIX-teen driving hours... (Yep, you read correctly, 16 hours of driving from KY to TX. Now, I know there are many people who drive long distances often, but, WOW, how do you do it? Coming back we split up the driving. God bless all of you who drive a lot. God bless you! My butt is still sore.)

Let's sing it all together! Shall we?

On the sixth day of Christmas, my holiday gave to me...
SIX-teen driving hours,
FIVE million dog hairs,
FOUR silly siblings,
3-D glasses,
TWO snowy boots and
a hospital containing my Daddy.

I'm breathing again

2010-12-21T13:42:00.000-08:00

I feel like for the first time, in a long time, I'm breathing more fuller. (Is fuller the right word to use there? Probably deeper.) I'm actually sitting at my desk at work, not worried about accomplishing A THING! My mind is on vacation. I have vacationitis. Is it Thursday yet? I drew our blue car on Dec. 23rd on my work calendar. WOOHOO!

Christmas this year is with the Bergstrom side. Bergstrom and I are driving to KY right after my last children's show on Thursday. We're stopping in Little Rock on the way there. Jules, you going to be in town?

Tonight is Christmas with my fam, which basically means dinner out and opening a ridiculous amount of gifts. My mother spoils us every Christmas. She says it's just "getting us what's on our Christmas list." HA! But I know I'll be that way with our children. How can you NOT spoil your children at Christmas time?

I'll be sure to post pictures of our Christmas in Kentucky when we get back on the 29th.

"I'm dreaming of a white Christmas...."

Christmas at our crib

2010-12-20T16:01:00.000-08:00

I really do love Christmas time, despite the fact that I just had my air-conditioner on and I've been working almost every night this month. But this time of year just makes me happy! Time off from work is approaching and decorations that only come out once a year are here! I don't have much, but I don't have much space, so that's a happy marriage.

Our tree is one that I've had since I was, probably, in elementary school. My mom got my brother and I little foot-tall trees for our rooms that we hung our most favorite ornaments on. Now it sits on our end table with my angel doily and glass Nativity.

I wish I could remember where I got my Nativity scene. It's made of glass and set on a mirror. I was tickled when I walked by a display case at the church where we perform our children's productions and saw it in there, except they had three glass sheep.

I think my favorite little something-something to set out at Christmas is my snowman. He usually sits next to the TV so that I can see him at nights when I watch the tube. My mother, surprise, surprise, gave him to me and I just love him. I love that he's in orange rather than red or green. Wouldn't it be fun to decorate for Christmas using non-traditional colors like orange and pink? Hmmm....I feel a bright idea coming on for next year!

True Confessions #538

2010-11-18T17:21:00.000-08:00

I'm over the moon excited about Prince William being engaged. I was telling a friend that I think my 'Princess Gene' has been activated. You see, I grew up with a mom and aunt who were obsessed with Princess Di and the Royal Family, so naturally, the gene got passed down to me. I TOTALLY had a secret crush on Prince William. I knew that one day, while vacationing in England, we would bump into each other, or he would see me in a crowd, (details don't matter) and he would ask to marry me! We're close in age and, HELLO, I knew I was destined to be a princess, so it was only logical. HA!

Kate Middleton is super beautiful, though. She's going to be the new Diana. I just hope that their marriage is one that's going to last. Hopefully, Prince William learned many lessons from his own parents' marriage. That would just be so sad.

Their wedding is going to be fabulous! I'm so excited. This wedding to me is like Princess Diana's was to my mom and aunt. You remember watching it on TV, 20 years later. Images from that day will forever be ingrained in your head.

So, Kate, you're welcome for not pursuing Wills because he COULD have been mine. But instead, I get a prince of my own. My swedish prince loves me more than any King, Duke or English Prince ever could. He's so much a prince, I see him as a 'king:'

Random Thoughts of the Night

2010-11-09T19:25:00.000-08:00

Inspired by Hannah's blog. (Because why write paragraphs when you can blog in bullets.)

* Good name for a blog or band - Blog in Bullets

*My husband gets too much pleasure out of killing

*How much water have I drunk today? I think I'm close to 64 ounces. YAY, me!

*I'm a little pissed that it took me an hour to make Jason and I on Sims3 last night and this morning when I tried to show Jason, we discovered the game didn't save! Grrr!

*Should I go into work in the morning and do office work, or take advantage of my 11 a.m. photo shoot call and not go in until then? Which one is going to win, I wonder?

*No, seriously, I really do wonder because I don't know what I'm going to do.

*I hope Conan is funny tonight. I'm so happy for him. (Look at me talk as if I know him.)

*I'm feeling a little Scrooge with Christmas shopping approaching. Some people are just too dang hard to buy for.

*Dear God, please help Abigail nail her audition next week. Show me how I can better serve her as a teacher.

AMEN

Weekend Update

2010-11-04T07:02:00.001-07:00

What a weekend! It was the first weekend in SEVEN that I had off. (Actually, semi-off...I still had a Pooh show Sat. morning) After the show, the parents picked Bergstrom and I up and we headed to Galveston, San Leon to be exact. It was my dad's birthday and we celebrated it at my brother's company's bay house in San Leon. You get all that? It was great. No agenda except eating, of course, and tons of fresh air.

For dinner that night, my mom had made reservations at Gaidos. It's the oldest restaurant in Galveston. 99 years old, I think. Very nice and very expensive. I ordered this yummy Crab Au Gratin. It was rich and creamy and tasted extra yum with the toasted bread. I was a little bummed out about my SEVEN vegetables. Come on people...we're in America, the land of bathtub-size portions. HA! jk.

After dinner we spent the rest of the evening and most of the next day relaxing in the beautiful, bay house. It was totally decked out with granite counter tops, a flat-screen, hand painted pictures, the list could go on. We spent most of the time on the dock fishing. At around 9:30 p.m. we FINALLY got the guys to come in to sing Happy Birthday and eat cake.

Jason was an expert fisherman. He fished a little when he was younger, but it had been a long time since. Boy, did he win the prize for craziest catches. He got a few red fish, a huge flounder and this stingray:

It was a good thing Mom and I weren't on the dock when it was caught. We, for sure, would have been screaming our heads off. Look at that thing. The scariest part was that my Dad had to get the hook out of it's mouth. Luckily, no one, or stingray, was harmed in the fishing of this family. We had a great time relaxing and spending time with the family.

Lessons from Pooh

2010-10-29T18:41:00.001-07:00

So, Winnie-The-Pooh has been going on for a few weeks now. We've found our groove, know what works, and are still having a generally good time with the show. (That, of course, is only when we're not performing for screaming babies or talkative kids.)

We only have, I believe, two weeks left and I think we'll end strong. Maybe not strong in sales but strong in performance. This show was PERFECTLY CAST. Everyone adds their own flavor to the story. Including Justin, who steals the show with his Eeyore 'tail celebration' dance.

After each show we sign autographs and talk to the families. Are number one question is "Where is Tigger?" This is then followed by semi-long explanation about how Tigger didn't appear until the second book, House At Pooh Corner and this play is adapted from the first book.

Sometimes, I do pinch myself about being an actress. Am I REALLY doing this for a living? Did I just perform for 100 people in tights and a leotard? (sigh) I'm blessed! Maybe it's the optimist in me, but...life is pretty darn wonderful sometimes! I think the ending of the show illustrates that perfectly:

PIGLET. When you wake up in the morning, Pooh, what's the first thing you say to yourself?
POOH. "What's for breakfast?" What do you say?
PIGLET. I say, "I wonder what's going to happen exciting today?"
POOH. It's the same thing.

Winnie The Pooh

2010-10-06T06:38:00.001-07:00

Yesterday, I realized, as I was blogging, that a lot of "life" has occurred that I've forgotten to mention; like being cast as Piglet in our up-coming, children's theater production.

I've had a blast rehearsing and working on this show. It really does help when you have close friends as cast-mates and director. We have loads of fun in rehearsals. Honestly, though, I will admit that I wasn't too crazy with doing the show at first. Growing up, I really wasn't into Winnie the Pooh. I watched some of the Disney shows, but that's about it. I don't think my brother or I owned a single piece of Pooh memorabilia. We just weren't into it.

Well, needless-to-say, this is an adorable show. We're giving it our all and think that the audiences will enjoy it too. I pray for sold out houses!

Will as Winnie, Marty as Christopher Robin, Me and Justin as Eeyore

Love A Good Steal

2010-10-05T15:59:00.000-07:00

Today is my day off. I've never loved Tuesdays which as much fervor as I do now. Y'all, I'm pooped with a capital 'P.' I COMPLETELY regret volunteering for Daisy as an ASM. My mornings, afternoons, nights and weekends are spent at the theater. It's been fun doing it with Moe but the lack of 'home time' is a killer. So...

Every Tuesday I breath a deep sigh. TIME OFF! And today was awesome! Stayed in my pjs until 12ish watching Pushing Daisies, Season Two on Netflix while drinking coffee and eating strawberries and cream oatmeal. HEAVEN! Driving to the bank to deposit money in the account. KA-CHING! Paying a credit card bill. Wait, that sucked!

So, I got some cash back from the deposit and told myself that, for once and for all, I was going to get rid of this shopping bug that has been living in my soul for about a month. (You know that feeling of wanting to get something new? That's the shopping bug. I feel it about every six months or so.) With money in my pocket I head to every woman's dream store: Ross. Don't you hear the angel singing. I love that place. I even love it despite ALWAYS waiting in horribly long lines, and I do mean ALWAYS!

I was on a mission. The thing I needed, not wanted, but needed, was a new skirt. I have tons of dresses, tons of tops and pants, but I am really longing for new skirts that go from work, to teaching, to weekends. And would you believe that the one thing I needed, Ross was in short supply. I was so despite to take home something, I even contemplated trying on one of those tacky, Junior skirts that are WAY TOO ORNAMENTED. You, girls, know which ones I'm talking about: with chains or zippers that have lace, leather OR gems on them. No offense to Juniors who have those, but they are not appropriate for any women over 18. And I am nowhere near the age of 18.

Well, in the clearance section, WOO HOO, I found it. A Jones New York, brown pencil skirt with buttons all the way down the front. Bingo. It's in my size. so I rush to the dressing room. As I try it on, I notice the main top button is gone. I was so bummed. The perfect skirt and it has a flaw. I check out the skirt to see if it had an extra button on the tag or even hidden inside the seam. No luck. I wanted this skirt, though. Since I'm so determined to take it home, I decide that I would probably be able to find a button that worked at home, or, at least, move around some buttons to make it work. (Yes, Tim Gunn. I will!) Plus, I figure, I at least can ask for a discount, right? If it's missing something, I should at least show them and ask what they could do.

So, here it is! The new skirt I will be wearing for fall. Oh, and, yes, I did get a discount for the missing button. 20% BABY! That means I only spent $9.60 plus tax. (sigh) I love a good steal.

Oh, wait, what's that I see at the waist...at the top? Oh, that's right. That would be the missing button I found in the pocket and sewed back on. ( insert Abby's happy dance)

Jules is getting married

2010-09-14T19:17:00.000-07:00

I have the honor, the privileged, the delight to announce that my Jules got engaged this past weekend.

Julia and I first met in the 9th grade. Mr. Davis' class, I think. I sat behind her because of 'Barclay,' Dawson.' My first words to her, and yes, I remember them, were, "You have really pretty hair." She did. It was long and I think she curled it that day. Plus, the back of her head was the first thing I saw of her. A few months later that year, I, ironically, started to attend the church her family was (and still are) members of and joined the youth choir/fall musical. There she was. We became fast friends and the rest is history.

We went our separate ways in college but try to keep in touch the best we can. The problem is, we're both horrible at it and not big phone people, but that's ok. Jules and I have this weird, unspoken understanding that no matter what, no matter how long, we will always be friends. When we see each other we just pick right back up where we left off. We love each other with this sisterly, Godly love that transcends our time on this Earth. I think I wrote in her Senior book, "Friends are friends forever if the Lord's the Lord of them." (And, yes, it's corny to quote a Michael W. Smith song, but I was 18, and didn't know any better.)

Ok, so back to the engagement. She emailed to say she was going to be in town with her beau, Jonathan. I immediately knew. I mean, HELLO, visiting family randomly in Sept.? She walked into Katz. We hugged and then I glanced down at the rock and said, very sly, with a playful smirk, "So, when did this happen?"

The rest of the lunch was spent discussing details, laughing about parents and Jason and I getting to meet and know Jonathan better. It had been two and a half years since we had seen each other and, boy, was it long over do.

Congrats, my Jules! You're going to make a beautiful bride. Can't wait to watch you walk down the aisle.

The Cave

2010-09-12T17:37:00.000-07:00

For the three that faithfully look at my blog to see if I've updated: my sincere apologies. Where have I been you may ask? Well, if you were at ask Hannah, she would reply, "The bear is in her cave."

We opened our 44th season with the production of Driving Miss Daisy. And because I haven't crewed/assistant stage managed a show is 5 years, I thought I'd give it a go. I'm ASMing the show with the 'dear heart' Hannah. (Whom I have lovely nicknamed 'Moe' after the Wall-E character.) There's not much to my job except make the sounds/music happen.

Basically, I do three things 1)set up the sound cue correctly 2)repeat "Standby sound cue ___" to Hannah and 3)make sure I keep Hannah entertained with snarky comments. I don't really watch the show but because it is DRIVING Miss Daisy, I do have a handful of 'turning the car on' sound cues.

So far, so good. I don't mind being in the booth. I think it's a nice change that most actors should take if they can. Heck, I get to wear my favorite color all the time. HA! I have true respect for stage managers. They are the super heroes of theatre! Hands down. Let's just hope that I'll get off my butt and walk between work and the show. That's one of the reasons I volunteered to do this: to get some workouts in. Oh, well. It's only week one. Five more to go!

The Ultimate Quote

2010-08-31T13:52:00.000-07:00

Just to make you smile today, all my beautiful, sister friends:

The Ultimate Quote

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit."

Etsy took my soul

2010-08-24T14:04:00.000-07:00

It begins with an 'E' and rhymes with "Hmm, let's see..." It has taken over my soul, my time, my mind.

It all happened when I saw this necklace on another blog. It says, "There's No Place Like Home" from the Wizard of Oz. LOVE IT! So, luckily they posted the link to the Etsy site where it's sold. Immediately, I'm there, 'ooh-ing' and 'ahh-ing' over this $40 necklace. The conversation in my head began: "Do I like it?""Do I need it?""I could splurge on it but would I really wear it?""Nah, probably not. Too bulky."

I didn't buy it but instead typed "Wizard of Oz" in the search engine of this evil website. For 40-60 minutes straight I'm sucked into looking at 54 pages of items related to the WOOz, MY FAVORITE MOVIE!

Holy moly, I was overwhelmed with all this wonderful, and pointless merchandise. I want it all, even the stupid stuff. (Which, as I'm typing, find this whole situation ironic since I just watched Confessions of a Shopaholic over the weekend. The mannequins in the stores beckoned and pursuaded the main character to buy things. Just like Etsy was beckoning me.)

Here are some of the jewels that I found (and please, oh please, don't read into the baby stuff. I am not pregnant, nor will I be pregos anytime soon):

Mucho Mucho Giveaway

2010-08-22T06:33:00.001-07:00

One of the blogs that I read, Mucho Mucho is doing a giveaway from one of my favorite online stops, Shabby Apple.

Check it out!

Funny Stories from Last Week

2010-08-15T13:04:00.000-07:00

MINE -
On my day off, Tuesday, I got my hair done. It's such a fun treat I give myself every six months. (I wish I could go every six weeks like I'm suppose to with my roots, but it's just too darn expensive!) Any ways, I was finished with my color treatment and moved to cook under the heater for about 15 minutes. (Think Steel Magnolias.) The lady, picture a Shirley Maclaine type, who was right before me was still under the heater. Louise, our stylist, looked at her hair and told her the treatment wasn't dry yet, needed more time. Well, this didn't go over so well with "Shirley." She had already been sitting there for 20 minutes and loudly proclaimed, "Well, I don't want to be here until 6 tonight!"

Here we were: Shirley and Abby. Sitting side by side in the heaters. Awkwardly. After 15 minutes Louise comes back and says I'M done but Shirley's hair just wasn't taking. I coyly move over to the sinks as Louise 'calms the storm.' Louise tries to explain that she knows what she's doing and that everything will be fine. Louise says, "I promise I didn't do anything different this time. Look, you and her (aka Me) have the same treatment and she is done." To which Shirley states, "WELL, I'M NOT TWELVE!"

Ok, she hit a nerve. My huge pet-peeve in life is being called a child or teenage. I politely, yet forcefully, tell her, "Ironically, I have a shirt that says 'I'm Not Twelve.' I'm actually 27." Shirley was taken aback a bit. I think she felt a little guilty about her comment. (Which, fyi, she should have.) The only thing she said afterward was, "Oh, I don't have my glasses on."

Oh, Shirley, don't stress about your hair. It will be alright. There are worst things out there like, unemployment, homelessness and calling someone they're twelve.

JASON'S -
His story begins with telling me Wednesday night, "There may be a right tennis shoe lonely on Fountain View."

As he walked out to his car in the morning, he was carrying causal clothes to change into for the Astros vs. Braves game that night. He opened his back seat, put his shoes on top of the car, placed the clothes in the backseat and shut the door. (You can totally see where this is going, right?)

Goes to work for 8 hours and then figures he has time to come home to change. Drives home and parks. Gets the clothes from the backseat and realizes....looks at the hood and there, sitting all by his lonesome, is Mr. Left Shoe. The SOLE survivor. HA! Get it?

Now we have to figure out what to do with just one shoe.

His Last Day

2010-08-03T18:04:00.000-07:00

It came and went: Jason's last day. Full of tears, prayers and many hugs, we got through it. I was a little thankful to have Into The Woods to take my mind off of it.

This morning at Bible study/company meeting, Jason and Jeff, who is also leaving this week to work for our church, were surrounded by our friends/co-workers with prayers. It was pretty beautiful yet painful to watch. I sat back on purpose to avoid the overwhelming emotion that was already swelling within me. I was fighting back tears all morning. (The tears won.) Jason then had to stand up and address everyone with a final 'good-bye.' That's when I officially lost the battle with the crying. There is just something about seeing your spouse cry that cuts your heart open.

He's amazing. What can I say? So many people adore him, and rightfully so. After work over 20 of our co-workers and their families ate dinner with us at Chuys. (I can't believe Jason actually thought no one was going to come. HA!) It was a good closure. But I'm afraid for tomorrow. Afraid that tomorrow is going to be EVEN HARDER than today. (sigh)

I'm happy. I really am. It's about following God's will and serving where He places us. And Jason's going to be a fantastic addition to he church. But...this is what I'm going to miss...

My heart hurts. But he'll be back on stage. I know it! I just know it!

Changes To Our Life

2010-08-02T19:56:00.000-07:00

God answered Jason and I's prayer for him to find another job. For about a year or so, we felt the Lord leading him to leave the company. This was immediately followed by excitement, nervousness, and tons of questions. The one thing we did know for sure was that his time to leave was before this next season started, aka August, aka now. We threw around the idea of part-time but that never set well with us.

Here was my deal, and I say this with TOTAL love and admiration for my husband, Jason's not the go-getter type. He'll be the first to admit it. He has always felt like a better follower than leader. Heck, he was born 12 minutes after his twin. So, finding a new job, was going to be a bit of a challenge, particularly in this employment, or should I say unemployment, climate.

Jason put in applications at Barns&Noble and got excited at the prospect of working in a bookstore. I was freaking out inside thinking, "He could conceivably make less than what he's currently making. YIKES!" I know that it wasn't about money, because it's not; however, my security alarm, as a woman, was sounding out "CAUTION! DANGER AHEAD!" Girls, you know what I'm talking about, right?

Well, one night, a few friends mentioned an opening at our church, a position working with the children's ministries doing office/desk/finance work. Jason emailed his resume that night and got an interview the next day. The next week was followed by a second interview, with some bigger higher-ups, and then ended with an online basic math/grammar aptitude test. Bodda Bing, Bodda Boom...JOB! God totally did all the work. Jason just went with the flow.

Last Monday was when he was offered the position and tomorrow is going to be his last day. Last day of Tuesday morning Bible study. Last carpool to the same location. Last time I can say, "This is Bergstrom, calling for Bergstrom." Last time I can pull the title of Mrs. Scheduling Coordinator. I'm a little sad, little worried tomorrow is going to be tough.

I fell in love with him at the theater. We acted together on that stage. Shared backstage kisses. Slowed danced in the lobby during a show. Had our headshots side by side.

Changes are occurring. Little hard to wrap my head around it.

100th Blog

2010-07-25T18:57:00.000-07:00

This is my 100th blog! And this evening I have good news, bad news to share with you...

Good News: Last time I went to the store I bought Panko, Japanese bread crumbs. I had heard so much about them and saw many recipes that used them in my Real Simple magazine. And, of course, if Real Simple says to use them...

I had defrosted some chicken and just thought I'd do some good ole' pan fried chicken with the Panko. Well, rats, I ran out of eggs. (Too bad Kat and Jason don't live here yet, I would have run over to borrow one from them.) On the back of the box, they said to bake them, "...mix Panko and any type of seasoning with vegetable or olive oil." Shoot, that sounds easy enough. I whipped up a bowl of Panko, garlic powder, Italian seasoning and olive oil. Coating the chicken in it and baked it for 20 minutes at 350. Here's what it looked like:

Not too shabby, huh? It actually smelled a lot better than it tasted. Next time, I'm going to make sure to add tons more seasoning because it was a little too bland for my taste. The Panko was so super crispy, though. Next, I want to try this fried eggplant sandwich recipe that was in Real Simple.

So the Bad News: When Jason came home from church (I had to work), he found our sink like this. Our neighbors is the same way, so it's most likely one of our connecting pipes that's messed up. A plumber is coming tomorrow, but in the meantime....
Doesn't it look horrible? The level goes up and down but we're afraid of it overflowing tonight and a big mess awaiting us in the morning. I also don't want it to start smelling. Also, we managed to just wipe down most of the dishes and plates and put them in the dishwasher but, as you can see in the corner of the picture, a few things are going to have to wait until tomorrow. My OCD/cleanliness is going BONKERS! Can't wait to get this fixed.

Buzz Around Town

2010-07-22T19:31:00.000-07:00

I'm a huge fan of my city. I really can't imagine living anywhere else...maybe that's because I hardly ever have....any ways, Houston is amazing. Besides the horrible humidity every summer, I give Houston three clicks of my ruby slippers. (Please tell you got that reference!)

So the buzz around H-Town is a corpse flower names Lois. Yes, you read correctly, a corpse flower. There has only been 29 of them in America and, surprise, surprise, Houston has one growing the at the Museum of Natural Science. I should explain that it's called the corpse flower because when it opens, it gives of an odor resembling a dead corpse. Explorers long ago actually thought it was a man-eating plant. (Ironic, when Little Shop of Horrors is playing just across the street at Miller Theater!) It only blooms once every 30 years and it's the (insert 'movie trailer voice') LARGEST FLOWER EVER.

They have been watching this thing like a hawk. As of yesterday, here is a video of what it looks like:

The Beginning of the Bloom [Corpse Flower] 7.21.10 from HMNS on Vimeo.

They even have a 24 hour Web Cam' that you can keep up with the blooming of Lois. She's taking such a long time they have nick-named her Slow-is. Maybe Jason and I will get to go see her, but I've heard the line is crazy long. We'll, see.

"Don't Feed The Plants"
from Little Shop of Horrors

They may offer you fortune and fame,
Love and money and instant acclaim,
But whatever they offer you
Don't feed the plant!

They may offer you lots of cheap thrills
Fancy condos in Beverly Hills
But whatever they offer you
Don't feed the plant!

Ten Things...#1

2010-07-19T11:58:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#1. Him
Bet you're not surprised, huh? Now, I know I don't 'own' him but he certainly does belong to me. He is my number one! Items 10 - 2 really don't add up to the likes of this guy!

Ten Things...#2

2010-07-17T06:51:00.001-07:00

Sorry I've taken a bit of a hiatus from blogging. Bergstrom and I just got back from our mini-vacation to the Texas Hill Country. Pictures and blogs soon!

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#2. Signed Playbill
When we were dating, Christmas '06, Jason spoiled me to death with presents. He had just gotten back from a Thanksgiving trip with his family to New York, so all the presents themed around that. I remember it was raining and he took me to one our work's buildings and had all these presents wrapped and laid out on the floor. He gave about 6 different incredible gifts. The best and last one was a signed playbill of You're A Good Man, Charlie Brown, one of my favorite musicals. I couldn't believe he spent all that money on me. I knew his salary.
He even framed it for me. I've never taken it out and thumbed through it but who cares....
what's imporant is that pink signature on the front, my big sister-separated at birth, diva extraordinaire, cuttie patottie, Broadway superstar celebrity KRISTIN CHENOWETH!

Ten Things...#3

2010-07-11T15:53:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#3. Vanity
In 1991, I'm estimating the year, my parents bought me this vanity. If my memory serves me correctly, they either got it at an antique shop or garage sale. I had just started my youth performing group, Encore Youth Performers, that traveled around singing and dancing weekly at different venues. We have a picture of me sitting at my vanity before a performance in my red, Encore t-shirt. I still sit at it every morning and put on my make-up. For being almost 20 years old, it still looks and functions pretty well. I hope to past it along to my little girl someday.

Here it is with nothing on it, nice and clean:

This is what it looks like with all my crap, except....I'll be honest and admit that I set up this shot to make it look uber-neat:

Ten Things....#4

2010-07-10T14:52:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#4. Clutch
My choice for number four is my clutch
because I just love it, oh, so much.
Its color, its size is so very great.
It's the perfect purse to take on a date.
I love it so much, it just makes me rhyme,
but wait! Oh no, this could be a sign
that I've been teaching too much with Seuss.
My last theatre class, kicked my caboose.
So, goodbye blog, before it gets worst,
and in the meantime, enjoy looking at my purse:

Ten Things...#5

2010-07-08T17:28:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#5. Rain boots
I love them not just because they have cute polka-dots on them but because they have been so dad-gum useful lately with all this stormy weather. I love stomping through puddles and tall grass in them. Once again, Christmas present from the madre. Everyone needs some rain boots. Target is where I got mine.

Sidenote: This exercise, of picking 10 things that I love, has been harder than I thought. I, of course, like and enjoy most of everything I own, but distinguishing things that I LOVE have been difficult. I think the reason being is that I hardly buy anything for myself. Take the pink vase for example, I love the vase but NEVER would have bought it if I saw it in a store. I talk myself out of almost every purchase. I'm a total cheap-skate. (That's why, if you've noticed, most of these things were gifts from other people, mainly my mom.)

Ten Things....#6

2010-07-07T06:20:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#6. Charlie Brown Christmas Tree
When Bergstrom and I were dating, for a Christmas gift he gave me this Charlie Brown Christmas tree. (I think he got it at Urban Outfitters.) It came with a cute, red ornament and everything. I'm a huge Peanuts fan and this item really does bring a warm-fuzzy to my heart. Unfortunately, it's packed away with all the other Christmas stuff, so here are some old December 2008 pictures we took with our tree.

These pictures were taken when we did our 365 Project.

Ten Things....#7

2010-07-06T07:31:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#7. Bath Pillow
I want to shake the hand of the man (or women) who invented the bath pillow. Holy Moly, it's genius! For a bath-guru like me, it's the perfect accessory. No more awkward neck positions. No more cold tile. Just bliss in the form of a pillow. I got mine at Bed Bath and Beyond. It has little suctions that hold the pillow in place; however, be warned that you'll probably have little indentions on your neck from the pillow. Other than that, two thumbs up!

Ten Things....#8

2010-07-05T15:47:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#8. My Bed

It's, kind of, a no-brainer. I mean, come on, who doesn't love their bed? (Now that I think of it, maybe a 5 year old.) But my bed is DEFINITELY something that makes my heart happy, not just because it means I get to sleep, but I also just really like the look of the iron swirls. I got it from IKEA in 2007. It was a birthday present from my parents. It's wonderful! As you can see I have it paired with black & white bedding; however, it's actually a black/brown iron, so a brownish comforter would work too. (We just switched over the two-sided comforter just a week or so ago. Haven't decided if I like the 'jail' look.)

(sigh) Is it bedtime yet?

Ten Things....#9

2010-07-03T16:27:00.000-07:00

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#9. Pink VaseI was invited to a dinner event with my mother. The dinner was for an organization called The Giving Gown Foundation. My mom volunteers at their big prom dress event every March and wanted to go to this dinner fundraiser. It's a fantastic foundation; however, not many people were there that night. So, when they raffled off the centerpieces on the table, WE WON! I love this vase. I can't wait to place it on the mantle in my future house for Valentine's Day.

Ten Things....#10

2010-07-01T06:36:00.001-07:00

Sorry, blog world, for being away for so long. Summer acting camps have really kicked my butt! I'm currently teaching the high school musical theatre class. We're doing Oklahoma! and I'm really proud of all the work the students are putting into this mini-production.

I've wanted to blog for a while but, as I'm sure you all can relate, life just gets in the way. I have this idea for my next ten blogs. (I think it's a way to keep me focused on blogging and writing.) I'm going to post "Ten Things I Love That I Own." Often I read interior design magazines or blogs and dream of having a beautiful house and beautiful things. (I think it's a little passion that every women has: to make their house and the world around them beautiful.)

So, I've decided to showcase some things that I own that I love because every women should own things that they love and that makes their heart happy.

Ten Things I Love That I Own
#10. Retro Clock
Last Christmas my mother got Jason and I this clock for our kitchen. The owners of the apartment wallpapered the kitchen with this red-checkered paper, which is a good thing because red is one of my favorite colors. My mom saw this clock in Target and knew it would go perfectly. As always, she was right!

(Did I take this at 8:30 p.m. or 8:30 a.m.?)

O, Abby, of little faith

2010-06-21T15:36:00.000-07:00

Do you ever have a day where one single thing seems to occupy your thoughts and your whole day? Like work or maybe a relative is sick so you think about that all day. Maybe your air conditioner is broken, God forbid, and everything you see or do reminds you of getting the air conditioner fix.

Today, mine was my car. If you'll remember back to my very first blog, I talked about how I hate car issues. Well, today I just couldn't seem to avoid them.

I walked out to my car today to find a business car on the windshield that said, "Call me (phone number). I scratched your car." I looked and on my bumper was 6 little dots where the paint had chipped off. I so did not care. My car is a '99 and has seen a lot worst than that. So, I talked to Jason and we agreed that this damage was nothing to fix. On my lunch break, I called the guy who happened to be a realtor. He was this country guy who was going through a drive-thru when I called. (Why he answered his phone when he was in the middle of ordering, I'll never know.) He told me that he hated it when people hit cars and just drove away, that he was telling his son that he was going to be honest and pay for the damage. I explained that I didn't really care and that I wasn't going to have it fixed. I thanked him for his honesty and left it at that.

So I was thinking about this guy and how, hopefully, he got a blessing out of not paying for my bumper. THEN around 3, driving back from a class, my 'service engine soon' light comes on. REALLY? Sarcastic WOO HOO! Car stuff all around today.

We'll take it in either today or Wednesday. I have a feeling it's the catalytic converter (sp?). MUCHO DINERO. Floods of 'If onlys' rushed into my head on my drive home from work. 'If only we were rich,' 'If only I wasn't an adult,' 'If only we didn't work for peanuts,' 'If only....' And what does God answer?

"And why do you worry about your clothes? See how the flowers on San Felipe grow. They do not labor or spin, yet I tell you that not even Grace Kelly in all her splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O Abby of little faith?"

He also played this beautiful new Amy Grant song on KSBJ on my drive home. The chorus says, "We pour out our miseries, God just hears a melody. Beautiful, the mess we are. The honest cries of breaking hearts are better than a Hallelujah."

If you need to pour out your miseries today, DO IT! He can take it. He's a big God.

Father's Day

2010-06-20T06:34:00.000-07:00

What to say to honor my father? There's so much!

Maybe I'll just give you my top five favorite moments with my dad:

5. My dad telling me in middle school how much he loved the play I was in. He said he laughed so hard that the video camera shook because he couldn't stop laughing. (Pretty awesome compliment coming from a not-so-into-theatre guy.)

4. My father pretended to be a stylist named, Marvey, whenever he gave me a bath. Marvey would shampoo, condition and comb my hair out almost every night.
3. In Kindergarten, for a homework assignment, I had to ask my dad what he did for a living. My dad answered, as a joke, "I'm a grease monkey," so that's what I wrote on my paper.

2. After coming home from a Sunday trip to Ace Hardware, he proceed to circle the cul-du-sac in front of our house about 20 times singing, "You Can't Always Get What You Want..." to me. (I guess that was a father/daughter teaching moment he wanted to get across to me.)

1. After my first experience with breaking up with a boy, I was crying my eyes out in my bedroom. My dad came in, sat on the bed, put his hand on my back and said softly, "Honey, the first one's a bitch." Short, simple and so true.

I love my dad. He's not perfect, but hey, neither are his kids. He's taught me over the years to be a hard-worker, that anything worth doing is worth over-doing, and to accept people for who they are.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!

Lisa's Baby Shower

2010-06-17T16:34:00.000-07:00

Lisa and Wes had there first baby shower on Sunday, the 13th. It was in Nacogdoches because that's where Wes is from and still has family there. (I call it Nac-a-nowhere.)

It was a small gathering of mainly his family, so I think that Lisa was happy to have her girls there for her. Steph, Sarah Jean and I drove up together, which was totally fun since it's been a long time since we hung out. We had some major catching up to do and some major sing-a-longs to partake it....

We laughed so much at the shower, just the four of us. I have so much fun with these women. Always have. It felt like old times. I feel like the friends you have when you're little are friends that help shape you into the person you become. But your college friends are the friends you make because you have a strong connection with because your personalities truly mesh together.

Lisa's doing really great. The pregnancy has been super easy. She has about 5 - 6 more weeks left and I CAN'T WAIT! She's going to make a wonderful mom because she has such a youthful spirit herself. And I just have a feeling her and Wes are going to make pretty babies!

CAN'T WAIT TO MEET YOU MR. BABY KING!

33 Years Ago

2010-06-10T16:12:00.001-07:00

On June 10, 1977, these two hippie bippies joined together in holy matrimony in San Jose, California. Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad! We love you and thank you for your wonderful marriage that is an incredible model for us.

You guys are the cutest!

Herb-Killer

2010-06-09T17:19:00.000-07:00

I'm adding "Herb-Killer" to the bottom of my resume. I feel horrible. These were the herbs that two students gave me in May as a 'thank you' for teaching them all year. I love herbs. I really do. I wish I had a backyard where I could have planted them because I really do think herb gardens are cool. Strolling outside, like the Barefoot Contessa, and cutting fresh herbs for the delicious dinner that night...

My apartment was just not the best spot for these little guys to thrive. The basil did the best but I think the mint needed more sun and the cilantro didn't like the Texas heat when I placed it outside. Sorry, charlie!

So, note for all who are reading: Herbs + Me = dead

LOST Addiction

2010-06-08T10:44:00.000-07:00

We gave in a got Netflix. (I think that means that we officially joined the human race now.) We've had it for a few weeks and I can already tell you it's well worth the $8.99 a month. We're movie junkies. Jason and I love to watch movies and so, with being debt free now, this is a little treat we don't mind spending money on.

Any ways, LOST: Season I! Man, it's good. We didn't watch it when it was on TV but we streamed it through Netflix. I think that we spent two consecutive Saturdays in the row just in our apartment watching LOST. If you guys haven't seen it, it's worth watching.

The writing is superb and the storyline of each main character is intriguing. Jason and I shared our favorite and least favorite characters of Season One with each other, and ironically, my favorites are his least favorites and visa versa. My favorite characters are Kate, Charlie and Hurley. My least are Locke, Sawyer and Shannon. Jason loves Locke and Sawyer and hates Charlie. HA!

I digress. We're addicted. We love it. We said we were going to wait a week or so until starting Season Two, but that didn't last. I'm just so glad that we both are really into a show. It makes the evenings fun and gives us something to share and look forward to.

Dancing Celery

2010-06-04T09:05:00.000-07:00

Story behind the video:
When I was directing Laura Ingalls Widler, we were at one of our last rehearsals running through the whole show with the lights and sound. Brenda designed the sound and told me she had found a piece of music to play right before Laura and Mary dance around and sing, "Buffalo gals won't ya come out tonight..." She assured me that it was a fun song and that I would like it.

Well, little did she realize that the scene before "Buffalo Gals" was when Mary got sick with scarlet fever, almost died and went blind. Super dramatic. She played this song after:

Laura. (running into Pa's arms) She can't die, Pa. She just can't.

Pa. Hush, half pint. It's not so bad. There are some things you just don't want to see.....You'll have to see them for her. Do you think you can do that, half pint?

Laura. (with tears in her eyes) I can. I know I can.

So the music played and we all went rolling on the floor with laughter. I think some of us peed our pants, we were laughing so hard. For Hannah's birthday, I made this video with the music. I entitled it Dancing Celery because it reminds me of an animated cartoon with celery dancing around in the crisper. What do you think?

Memorial Day Weekend

2010-06-03T17:10:00.000-07:00

This is my long over-due Memorial day blog.

Jason and I had such a relaxing weekend. On Sunday we pretty much hung out at my parent's pool all day drinking margaritas and eating Mexican food. HEAVEN! We also were messing around with my dad's new inflatable jet-ski. Hopefully soon, the boat he's been fixing will be pulling it around on the lake. But for now, I'll have to do:

Here are some pictures my parents took on Sunday. (Too bad my brother couldn't join us. He was rockin' out at a Korn concert.)

Then on Monday, Memorial Day, we slept in, then hopped back into our swimsuits for a Bar-B-Q Birthday Bash at the Arriagas. It was Laurie and Christy's joint birthday party. Great day for a pool party. I have the world's best friends.

And they have the sweetest children. Man, I'm stinkin' spoiled!

Great Quote

2010-05-28T05:54:00.000-07:00

"If I believe in God and the life after death and you do not, and if there is no God, we both lose when we die. However, if there is a God, you still lose and I gain everything."

- Blaise Pascal, 17th century mathematician

Confession (543 of 34,619)

2010-05-26T09:46:00.000-07:00

I religiously watched Dancing With the Stars 10th season. Realty shows really don't appeal to me too much. Being an actress, I think reality shows are a rip-off for professional actors. Professionals loose the opportunity to be on a series or sitcom when the networks create shows like Survivor, American Idol or any other contest show; however....

I do tune in every now-and-then to them and for some reason I was hooked to DWTS this season. The dancing was so amazing and it's no surprise Pussy Cat Doll, Nicole, won. She was truly mesmerizing. She made everything look so seamless and easy. Check out her Argentine Tango:

These are my friends

2010-05-24T10:05:00.000-07:00

Some friends had a Lost Finale Party last night. We don't watch Lost so we left before they started watching the finale. But, come on, were we really going to miss this???

Things on my mind

2010-05-21T08:20:00.000-07:00

1. I've seen a lot of trailers/commercials for the new Shrek movie, but Jason and I are a bit confused. Is the title of the next movie Shrek The Last Chapter or Shrek Forever After? We've seen both and don't quite understand. Pay attention next time a commercial comes on the TV and you'll see what I mean.

2. A family gave me a $25 Visa card for teaching their four children in my homeschool class. SCORE! I'm struggling with using it for frivolous stuff rather than practical items. I gave it to Bergstrom to buy a few essential groceries: eggs, milk, peanut butter, toilet paper, but he insisted that I spend it on myself. To quote him, "I want you to buy something that you don't need, but want." Man, I love him. There's about $14 left (after I made him buy those essentials) and I don't know what to buy. I went to TJMax yesterday. Picked up a shirt that I was going to buy. (Didn't really love it, but thought what-the-heck.) The gift card didn't read on the scanner, so I took it as a sign and left with nothing. Bummer. What to buy? What would you spend $14 dollars on? I think I'm going to venture to Target and look at what they have. Maybe shoes? A DVD? A CD? Earrings?

3. I should clean my apt. I mean REALLY clean it. I half clean it about every other weekend, but I should really get at it.

4. Is my meeting at 11:00 with all the department heads going to give me a headache?

5. Another student, actually two, a brother and a sister, gave me three potted herbs as a thank you for teaching them this year. (Same homeschool group and, yes, they totally spoil me) I now have basil, mint and cilantro in my apt. on the window ledge. I'm excited to have fresh herbs but I'm afraid they're going to die. HA! I just thought of "How to Lose a Guy..."

"YOU KILLED OUR LOVE FERN! YOU MADE IT DIE!"

Any ways, I have some chicken, fettuccine and alfredo sauce. I'm excited that now I have fresh basil to sprinkle on top of my fettuccine alfredo, once I get my butt into the kitchen to make it.

TGIF!

I feel like I'm 50

2010-05-19T10:40:00.001-07:00

Why do I feel like I'm 27 going on 50?

I feel so tired and weighty. Is that a word, 'weighty?' My husband would know. Any ways, work and life have been so stressful lately and I'm so stinkin' jealous of everyone that gets days off and time to rest. I thought that by not being in any shows, there would be some downtime. WRONG! Big fat WRONG! I've understudied both of the shows going on, had intern auditions, had to usher/House Manage up the wazoo, schedule the Academy for the craziness that will be this summer and just had four showcase performances with my classes in two days. Dang it, I'm tired!

I've been emotionally eating too, which is never good. Hello, Butterfinger. Hello, Jack-In-The-Box. Hello, Dr. Pepper. Hello, cheese, cheese puffs, Doritos and a bellyache last night.

I feel like a total mess, y'all. I jokingly told Jason the other day, "Can I just get pregnant so I can have a break?" That didn't go over too well. He didn't see my reasoning behind the statement.
Shucks. I want time off!

(And thus ends the pity party in my office.)

Steel Magnolia Nail

2010-05-18T06:49:00.000-07:00

Last year I was cast in Robert Harling's Steel Magnolias at our theater. Taking place in a beauty shop, it required all six actresses to get their hair and nails done night after night after night.....A lot of fun, but a lot of work, particularly on our hair and nails. For every show, I walked on with "wet nails," removed it with nail polish remover and then in Act II, got my nails painted again. This wrecked havoc on my nails. They were orange by the end of the run. I literally, set out my nail clippers so that the last time I walked off stage for the last time, I could cut them all off.

Well, fast forward to the here and now. It's taken a whole year for this one thumb nail to completely "heal." Putting so much polish on it caused the top layer of nail to peel off, but not just at the top of the nail, the middle. Every time I cut it, it still continued to split. It became a thorn in my side because I really do like my nails and like them to be nice.

So, Hallelujah and Praise the Lord, my Steel Magnolia nail is gone! I took documentation to show you because I know you all care so deeply about my nail. So, what did I do afterward.... I painted my nails pink, of course.

My Brother's Birthday!

2010-05-16T20:00:00.000-07:00

My wonderful, handsome, older brother celebrated another birthday today. My only sibling. The one who humbled me constantly with the reminder that I was NOT the only kid in the family. HA! We even went through puberty at the same time. (I'm sure that was fun for the parents.) He continually picks on me, bosses me around, but loves me just the same.

We went out to Lake Conroe with the boat he and our dad have been fixing up. I'm so proud of them. They amaze me sometimes with their ability to be handy and fix practically everything that breaks. It was a fun day. We all got a little sun and got to spend some time cruising around on the boat. And, of course, celebrate one of my favorite guy's birthdays!

You're my hero, Todd. I love you and apologize for all the annoying singing, tagging along, tattle-telling, penny fights all these years. Happy Birthday! Hope you had a good day.

Last Chapter of "The Pipe Goblins"

2010-05-14T06:03:00.001-07:00

Welcome back, boys and girls to the last chapter of "The Pipe Goblins." I hope your excited to read it with me as we journey back to the land of the Strom of the Berg. Here we go....

After being extremely upset for over a month and a half, the princess's prayers were answered. A plumber, riding on a white horse, galloped into the bathroom to fight the pipe goblins. He searched and went through treacherous terrain until he found them under the commode of the upstairs occupant, in the waxy-doughnut thing to be exact. (And that's a technical term, kids, "waxy-doughnut.") With one big swipe of his plumber sword, the pipe goblins were vanquished. The hole was repaired and everything was fixed back to normal.

The moral of this story, boys and girls, is to make sure the waxy-doughnut of your heart is strong and in good shape. If not, the pipe goblins might destroy it and leak liquid all over your commode.

Weekend Update

2010-05-10T19:30:00.000-07:00

We didn't get much sleep this weekend and it wasn't because we were terribly busy. We just, for one reason or another, got to bed later than usual most nights.

Friday night we watched the little monkey, or at least that's my nickname for her. Zoey is a jewel. Jason and I love her with a passion. We feel so honored to be apart of her life and feel so grateful to Christy and Joey for trusting us and allowing us to be pseudo-aunt and uncle to her. She's the perfect child to watch, hardly fusses, goes to bed when suppose to and is a great communicator of what she wants. Friday was the first time EVER she woke up in the middle of the night at our place. Just needed a clean pull-up. So easy! (God, please let our children be as easy as that!) Don't you love her feet in this picture?

We, of course, spent Mother's Day with my family. We ate my delicious meal of pot roast, aka my go-to meal, with spinach/strawberry/walnut salad as a side. I made biscuits but realized AFTER the meal that I stuck them in the microwave just to keep them warm and forgot to pull them out. Oh, well. Then we walked around Discovery Green because my parents, Jason and I had never been there. It's smaller than I thought. I'd love to see a play out there sometime, though.

It was fun. An eventful but not too crazy weekend. For Mother's Day I got my mom an Anthropologie sugar and creamer set. I thought they were really cool looking with a pyramid-type structure and they seemed to suit her. (sigh) My family. I love them!

Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-09T06:33:00.000-07:00

To all the mothers out there, and particularly MY mother, I hope you have a blessed day. I'm looking forward to spending some time with the fam, eating and then walking around Discovery Green.

LOVE YOU, MOMMA!

First 30 seconds of my 2nd-3rd Grade class

2010-05-05T10:40:00.000-07:00

Scene
(Waiting for all of the students to arrive for the 4:30 acting class; six girls are sitting in chairs)

Student A: (exclaiming) I have a zit!
Student B: What's a zit?
Student A: I have acne.
Student B: What's a zit?
ME: Well, when you get to be a teenager....
Student B: Is it like a pimple?
ME: Yes. It's the same thing. Zit, pimple, acne, it's all the same! (to A) Come here. Let me see.
(after looking at her face) That's not a zit, it's a bite.
Student A: (very matter of fact) Yeah, it's a spider bite. Did you know men can get breast cancer?
Student C: (sweetly) What's cancer?
ME: Cancer is when someone gets really sick. People can have cancer in different parts of the body, like the brain, skin, lungs...

And then they began to share how they each knew someone who had cancer. Oh my!

Weekend Update

2010-05-02T13:40:00.000-07:00

My cup runneth over on Saturday when I got to watch one of my voice and drama students perform in CYT's production of Cinderella. I had coached her for this audition and I remember telling her before hand, "Abigail, you ARE Cinderella. This is going to be a piece a cake for you because you are sweet, kind, gorgeous with a beautiful voice... Have confidence in this audition and have fun!" (Of course, the number one rule, right?) She got the role!

I did get a little weepy watching the ball scene. She was glowing. She was GREAT! There was not one moment were I grimaced and thought, "Man, why did she do that?" Her mic even went dead in the middle of a scene and she just slowly walked offstage while the step-sisters improv-ed a few lines until she came back. WHAT A PRO!

It was my joy and honor to be there in the audience cheering her on. I feel so blessed to be a part of this incredible young woman's journey. Keep shining, sweet Abigail!

Can I get married again?

2010-04-29T09:37:00.001-07:00

My radio station of choice is Houston's 89.3 KSBJ. Their afternoon DJ, Liz, is getting married on Saturday, so the whole station has been swept up in wedding-talk. It's been fun listening to the different comments and advice that all of Houston seems to be giving to the engaged couple. This has really brought back memories of my own wedding.

I want to get married again. I loved every minute of it, well, every minute of that day. Leading up to it was a bit stressful. I was just so happy, so excited to finally be united to the man God designed for me to marry.

Walking down the aisle was the most nerve-racking moment. My heart was beating so fast. Every step felt weighted with eagerness. I remember digging my nails into my father's arm. (Sorry, Dad.) The music was perfect. The processional was to the band Mae's Sun and Moon. It was the most intense moment of my life that I have ever experienced. In pictures, my face is neither smiling or frowning, just locked on Jason's with intensity. (Now, looking back, I wish I was smiling, but I guess you can't control those things when you are in the moment.)

Everything about that day was beautiful. The church, ceremony, pictures, reception, food....everything was perfect. What was also so special was having all the people you love in one room. Because, let's face it, the only time that really happens is at your wedding or your funeral. That's why, if someone you love is getting married, do everything you can to go. Forget work, forget about the expenses, forget taking that overdue vacation. You'd go to their funeral,right, so why not go to their wedding and enjoy life with them.

WOW. Not sure where that came from.

Ok, so back to getting married again, isn't it so sad you get married once? Um, well, once for some people, once for me. He's it. He's my husband forever and ever. Done. Fin. Till death do us part...

Enjoy your weddings future brides and grooms. It's a magical day. Stay focused on God and each other because you will have some curve balls thrown your way in the form of coordinators, parents, friends, not-nice comments, stress, need I go on?

Blessings to you on this romantic, wedding-filled thoughtful day!

GLEE, Zombies and more

2010-04-28T07:15:00.000-07:00

I was going to blog about Glee today. Did anyone catch it? I forgot it was on and only caught the last 15-20 minutes of it. I was too busy memorizing Alice lines to even think of watching TV. But if I had known my sister-separated-at-birth-diva-extraordinaire, Kristin Chenoweth, was going to be on it, I would have thrown down the script and said, "Screw It." I love her. She's fabulous! She sang 'Home' from The Wiz and now I feel the urge to buy it on iTunes. (That song is so wonderful, I think I secretly want to be black so I could be in that show someday. :)

But I'm not going to blog about Glee because I got a little excited about an email I just got. It was from Amazon.com showing me different books/selections that are on sale right now. This particular email centered around zombie books. (I know you're thinking, "Really? That made you excited?") BUT, it was one of those books that made me super-excited. It was called How To Speak Zombie: A Guide for the Living by Steve Mockus. Why does this book make me excited, you ask? Well, Steve is my cousin's boyfriend. Let's just call Steve my 'pseudo-cousin.' He and my cousin have been together for over 10 years and they live in San Fransisco. He works as an editor but just recently wrote this children's book. Awesome, huh? So of course, when I saw this random email from Amazon.com I got excited and thought, "I know him! I know him! I know him!"

My mom bought a few books and is sending them to him to get his autograph. I can't wait to get ours. I think Bergstrom and I will have a lot of fun speaking zombie around the apartment. OH! And did you notice the little sound device that helps you make zombie sounds. How fun is that? Come on...you know you want it. It's only $10 bucks!

Highlight of the day

2010-04-26T19:44:00.000-07:00

Tonight at the home-school organization I teach drama at, it was 'Meet the Teacher Night.' It was mainly for parent's of prospective students for next year. Not many new parents showed up, and it's a good thing because...

Notorious for my bad spelling, on my course description fliers, this is what I typed:

7th - 12th Grade Drama
Fall Semester: Auditing and Monologues

Good think I'm no the Enlish teacher! :) So happy to make you smile!

What? Why? When? Wrats!

2010-04-23T20:17:00.000-07:00

I found out this week that I will perform the lead role of Alice in our children theater's adaptation of Alice in Wonderland as an understudy while Alice is out of town. The actress they thought was going to do it...well, let's just say circumstances occurred which led them needing me to do it. OH! BY THE WAY, did I mention I only have two weeks to learn, memorize and block this musical? May 7th!

(Announcer's voice) And now, Mrs. Bergstrom, acclaimed actress will perform an one-woman show entitled: "Are You Serious???" Enjoy.Why must I work at an insane asylum sometimes?

To make you laugh

2010-04-22T16:33:00.000-07:00

Jeff introduced me to some treasures today. He and I are both fans of Simon Pegg. In the early 90's, Simon did a BBC skit-comedy show called Big Train. I haven't seen many of the clips, but here are a few he showed me today. (P.S. Honey, they are little addicting. I know you're going to love them. The 'puns' reminds me of you. :) )

Other funny ones are: Stop Fighting, Jockies and Before the Battle.

...It will melt your face off

2010-04-21T18:54:00.000-07:00

On Friday morning, as I was taking a shower, I thought I'd do my face a little favor and wash it with Jason's new cleanser, Clean & Clear Acne Cleanser, to be exact. Immediately, it starts to tingle and burn. What do I think? "OH, it must be working."

Halfway through the work day, I'm writing the summer schedule on my white, dry-erase board and my face starts itching. I just ignored it, but it wouldn't go away. So I went to the restroom to find my whole face as red as a tomato. I looked like I had a MAJOR sun burn on my face.

My friends Friday night we all asking, "Were you out in the sun today?" So, of course, I had to share my story at least three times. I was so self conscience.

Well, fast forward to today. I'm still dealing with my repercussions. My skin has been totally burnt. My face is peeling, just like it would with a sun burn. UGH! This allergic reaction was/is intense.

I'm so mad at myself. Jason says it's not really my fault because I didn't know my skin would react that way. But come on! My dry, sensitive skin mixed with benzoyl peroxide...I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN! You can't really see it too much, but, of course, to me, it feels like my whole face is melting off like Raiders of the Lost Ark. Nothing will work: moisturizer, lotion, water, itching....

UGH!

Polonius's Advice to Live By

2010-04-19T16:30:00.000-07:00

How was your weekend? I know some of my friends had it rough at the theater. Sorry. Like a nerd, I watched four hour Hamlet with Kenneth Branagh. NERD! It was fabulous, though.

One of the character's, Polonius gives this speech to his son. I liked it and thought I'd share. (You might recognize a line or two.)

"....And these few precepts in thy memory
Look thou character. Give thy thoughts no
tongue,
Nor any unproportion'd thought his act.
Be thou familiar, but by no means vulgar.
Those friends thou hast, and their adoption
tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;
But do not dull thy palm with entertainment
Of each new-hatch'd, unfledg'd courage. Beware
Of entrance to a quarrel; but, being in,
Bear't that th' opposed may beware of thee.
Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice;
Take each man's censure, but reserve thy
judgment.
Costly thy habit as thy purse can buy,
But not express'd in fancy; rich, not gaudy;
For the apparel oft proclaims the man;
And they in France of the best rank and station
Are of a most select and generous choice in that.
Neither a borrower or a lender be;
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
This above all - to thine own self be true..."

ISN'T IT BEAUTIFUL!?!?! Man, I wish I spoke like that! I hope you caught some of his pointers.

Happy Birthday, Sweet Sister!

2010-04-18T11:23:00.001-07:00

I always secretly wanted a sister. My brother, Todd, is awesome, don't get me wrong. I love him dearly and wouldn't trade him for the world, but I guess I grew up watching my mother and her sister and how close they were. Someone to share clothes with and watch girly movies.

Well, how blessed was I when I married into a family with an amazing sister-in-law! Dina is an incredible woman. Unfortunately, living states apart hasn't allowed the greatest access to spend time together; however, when we do, I feel it is so heartfelt and sincere. Those are perfect words to describe Dina: heartfelt and sincere. What you see is what you get! She loves the Lord and lives her life accordingly. She honors Him in all things and works as an activities coordinator at a retirement home. I mean, come on, HEART OF GOLD! Oh, and she's drop dead beautiful! Don't believe me:My children are going to have the world's best aunt. We didn't grow up together, but I have a feeling that we would have been best friends!

I love you, sister! Wish we were there to spend the day with you! Take some time for yourself today and eat a big piece of cake for me!

Follow Jason's New Blog

2010-04-16T08:29:00.000-07:00

Jason has a new blog: Day by Day by Day by Day. Hehe, reminds me of the musical Godspell or Meet the Parents. (Ask me to sing 'Day by Day' sometime for you and you'll see what I think of that song.)

Any ways, he's going through the entire Bible and writing his thoughts and feelings regarding each chapter he reads. He's such a writer at heart. Check it out here.

Man, I love this guy!

Someone thought I was Viola Swamp today

2010-04-15T11:13:00.000-07:00

I made someone mad, a financial adviser.

An old co-worker came in with his business partner on Tuesday and was giving me the sales pitch on different types of investments that Jason and I should undertake. First off, I really felt uncomfortable having them there at my work, during work hours. Secondly, I really felt pressured by them because they wanted a second meeting with me AND Jason Thursday (today) to go over the different avenues we could take.

So, after talking with Jason, things just didn't feel right. We never sought them out, they found me. I emailed him that night and in so many words said, "Thanks, but no thanks." It just wasn't for us at this time.

Well, I guess he never got the email, which I figured since he never responded back. I had a hunch they were going to show up today so I left and went to our other building. Sure enough, my cell rings and it's them, waiting for me at my office. I called back and this is how the convo went:

Me: I emailed you a few days ago. Sorry you never got it, but my husband and I aren't interested in the investment at this time.

Him: What investment is that?

Me: Well, um....the one you talked to me about the ___ and the ___.

Him: That's not what I was going to show you.

(PAUSE)

Me: Um....well.....uh.....(pause) I just felt pressured the other day and my husband and I do not wish to....uh.....work with you at this time.

Him: (harshly) Well, that's all you had to say.

Me: (very quickly) Ok, Good-bye.

He was pissed! It made me feel a little bad. I couldn't help it. I felt like Viola Swamp.

Well, so I drove around and called Jason to tell him how it went down and then I drove back to work about 15 minutes later. Well, as I was waiting to turn on to the street, I see them in the parking lot still. (I think they went to get coffee around the corner.) YIKES! So I had to keep driving around until I thought it was safe. When I finally decided to go back, I parked on the other said of the building and ran so fast into the door, just to be safe.

Man, salesman, can be vicious!

Sizing Up Sperm on National Geographic

2010-04-14T09:16:00.000-07:00

We watched the most interesting thing on TV last night. Have you heard about it: Sizing Up Sperm on the National Geographic Channel. It was so weirdly fascinating.

What they did was view sperm from a human perspective, so they had people represent the millions of sperm and the trek they take for fertilization. I learned so much! Did you know that only 1% of sperm make it to the cervix? Most will die in the vagina. Beat ya didn't know that?
As we were watching it, we started to feel sorry for the sperm. (I'm sorry, I just laughed as I wrote that.) Only 2-8 sperm, 2-8 out of over 2 million, make it to the fallopian tubes. The female reproductive organs do not help out the sperm at all. It sees them as a foreign subject that must be destroyed. Red blood cells violently attack the sperm that make it into the uterus.

Here are the red cells. Scary, huh?

Jason and I were mesmerized for a whole hour. It was the neatest concept we had ever seen on TV in a long time. Of course it held our attention because it was a journey with struggle, fight and will power. We, as actors, know that any story is good when it has a goal and obstacles to overcome.

The next time it airs is on April 20th. Here's the trailer and, by the way, I'm sorry if any of you reading is grossed out by human, science, medical stuff. My apologies!

Words to live by

2010-04-12T05:55:00.000-07:00

Lysa TerKeurst in her book What Happens When Women Say Yes to God wrote this:

"A real sign of spiritual maturity is looking to God not for comfort and convenience but for purpose and perceptive. Comfort and convenience lead to complacency. When trouble comes, the complacent person becomes critical of everyone, including God. On the other hand, purpose and perspective lead to the perseverance that is evident in those living a truly devoted life. The persistent person eagerly looks to handle trials and struggles in a way that honors God and allows personal growth."

Drive-In Weekend

2010-04-11T11:15:00.000-07:00

After a Saturday of lounging around and eating pancakes, I asked Bergstrom if he wanted to do anything tonight. I was thinking along the lines of having people over, but he hops on the internet and says, "DRIVE-IN MOVIE!"

There is a drive-in in Hockley, Texas, outside of Tomball, outside of Houston...get the picture? They said the gates opened at 7 and the movie was going to start at dusk. We hopped in the car and drove about 45 minutes to "Showboat Drive-In." My very first drive-in!

Tons of families were there and it was the most beautiful night here in Houston, cool and clear. They had two different double features that they were showing: Clash of the Titans and The Bounty Hunter OR How to train a Dragon and Diary of a Wimpie Kid. We saw How to train a Dragon because, when it comes to movies, Bergstrom and I will ALWAYS agree on a good animated film, plus he said he wanted to see Titans in a larger screen.

The movie was super cute, definitely worth the $5 dollars we each paid. We brought left over Easter candy and it was perfect! The movie ended a little after 10 and neither of us were up for staying for the new feature, but $5 for a person to see two movies is a steal!

Next time we come, we said we'd love to bring a group of our friends. There was a large field where people were tossing the ball and Frisbee around. Awesome way to spend a Saturday night with my guy!

Bored Friday

2010-04-09T10:09:00.000-07:00

12:12 - I'm sitting here at my desk at work, listening to KSBJ and about to eat my coleslaw concoction with peanuts and Asian Toasted Sesame dressing.

12:13 - First bite. Not bad. I love the peanuts! YUM!

12:15 - Start to play the "Who's in the Company Kitchen" Game. I'm guessing Sarah, but it could be Deb. Not sure.

12:16 - Nope, it's probably Deb...I heard a soda can open.

12:18 - Consider that it's funny that my skinny husband bought the reduced fat Asian dressing.

12:20 - Prop my feet up at the desk as I eat and wait to see who the next person to walk by my office is...

12:29 - No one yet. I think it was Deb. I hear her in the conference room. Either she is talking to herself or running over lines.

12:33 - Finished lunch: coleslaw, strawberries and Yoplait lemon, parfait cup...still hungry out of boredom.

12:39 - Wish I had 50 cents for a soda. Rats!

12:40 - Thinking about how I texted Jason at 10:30 am already talking about plans for after work: Redbox and frozen pizza at home! Man, it's a slow day.

12:44 - My calves really jiggle when I move my legs at my seat.

12:45 - "Who's in the Company Kitchen"...Linda?? Nope Linda AND Lee. They're talking about eating healthy.

12:50 - Oh look, the virus scan on my computer just finished. No viruses. Woh, that was a close one.

12:51 - BOBBY, THE TEMP, WALKED BY ON HIS WAY TO THE BATHROOM! Sucess!

1:00 - Alright back to work....

Weird guys that you have to love

2010-04-07T08:40:00.000-07:00

Do you have a crush on a celebrity that no one would guess? Or a crush on, what other people might call, an 'ugly' person? I hear many guys like Joan Cusack. Not to say she's ugly (because I don't think she is), but she's just not the 'typically' female, guys would find attractive. People fascinate me, particularly weird, non-conformist, slightly 'off' people. For some weird reason I find these two guys attractive:

1. Alan Cumming, I just love you. You are so weird and so talented there hasn't been a single thing that you've done that I haven't like...well...wait, I take that back. You've done some weird things. BUT ANY WAYS, you rock my world with your style and charisma!

2. Steve Perry from Journey. I love his voice and for SOME CRAZY reason find him attractive, particularly in this video. (I'm laughing just thinking about it.) I go weak in the knees for 80's music!

Disclaimer: I think Jason Bergstrom is THE MOST attractive man in the entire world and he comes before any human being on the face of this earth! hehe. LOVE YOU, HONEY!

Weekend Update

2010-04-05T08:19:00.000-07:00

How was everyone's Easter? I hope that it was filled with the perfect mixture of relaxation and family fellowship. Bergstrom and I worked all day Saturday but had Sunday off. I was so looking forward to church, my Dr. Pepper and Easter with my family.

I've never practiced Lent before but, for some reason, decided to give up soda for Lent. I'm not, necessarily, addicted to soda, or even caffeine, but knew I probably drink too much of it, so I gave it up for 40 days. It was nice finally getting to drink my Dr. Pepper.

Then around 2 p.m. we went up to see the fam. I knew my mother was going to have goodies for us because she ALWAYS does: Birthdays, Valentine's, Halloween, you name it! So, as we were sitting there in the living room talking and watching Dukes of Hazard (don't ask), she threw an egg at all three of us. In the egg was a clue that led to another egg, then another, then another...
I think my parents got so much pleasure watching us looking for the eggs. After the second clue I think I shouted, "Jason we need to have children so that they don't make us do this next year!" It was fun, though. My parents were super sweet to do it, and plus, it resulted it getting a bag full of candy.

Vote for my mother-in-law!

2010-04-03T20:28:00.001-07:00

My mother-in-law is in a 'Fabulous and Forty' contest at MORE.COM, so go and vote for Belinda Beavers. YAY!

How We Did It: Debt Free

2010-04-02T08:56:00.000-07:00

I'm sure after yesterday's post, some of you are asking, "How did they become debt free? They're like 16 years old." Well, I want to answer the question that has probably been on y'alls mind with the steps we followed and will continue to follow.

1. We took Dave Ramsey's advice. He is an excellent financial adviser and before we took the plunge I read his book Total Money Make-Over. He walks you through the steps of getting out of debt, how to save/budget and the wisest way to purchase big items, like a house and cars. His main motto that I think about when dealing with finances is "Live like no one else NOW, so that you can live like no one else LATER." Which brings me to #2:

2. Jason and I have what we want, but want what we have. We never buy things on impulse. NEVER. If I see, for example, a cute top at Target, I won't buy it right away. If I'm still thinking about that top two three months after-the-fact, THEN I'll purchase it and chances are, it's now on sale. Also, because we're living like no one else NOW, we opt out of dining out most of the time. Now, I will say, when all of our friends are going out to eat dinner and we choose to eat at home, yeah, it kind of sucks; however, as much as we can, we'll still go for the fellowship/environment factor and just eat a head of time. We have fantastic friends and love spending time with them!

3. We budget! Every month we know exactly how much we have to spend on groceries, gas, bills, etc. I look at our statement every month and make sure we're on track. And just to let you know, we typically allow ourselves around three dining out meals(including fast food) and one 'fun thing' a month. Going to the movies or going out ever week can add up, so try for one month to have movie night at home or buy a frozen pizza rather than order out. Seriously, it adds up! Be careful! (We don't do the envelope system but we've heard that works too.) We're doing this NOW, so that LATER in life we can freely go to dinners, events and spoil our kids without worrying about breaking the bank.

4. We paid for our car mostly in cash. We saved for a whole year and was able to put $10,000 towards a car. We also applied for Texas's AirCheck initiative program that paid us $3,000 to take Jason's old, clunker Pontiac off the streets. Look for things of that nature in your area!

5. We saved! Every month, automatically, we put around 12% of our paychecks into saving. Dave Ramsey says that people should save from 10 - 15%, so we followed his advice.

THE LAST AND MOST IMPORTANT THING WE DID.....

6. We tithed 10% every month! As Christians and members of a church, Jason and I both feel it is crucial for us to tithe. Jason even had us give 10% of our wedding money towards to church. (I was originally not too thrilled about it at first, but am SO glad we did!) The money we have is not ours, it's Gods. That's just how we feel. Period. And His word commands us to tithe and it also says you reap what you sow, so.....do the math!

So, if you're in a really tough spot financially, maybe even mentally, give today. Give someone an unexpected gift or card. Give someone your time by eating lunch with them. Give a stranger that extra bottle of water you carry in your car. Seriously! Fight the tendencies of this modern, materialistic world and GIVE rather than RECEIVE!

And those Christians out there that are reading this that don't tithe, I want to challenge you to give 10% to your church or ministry. If you're thinking, "I use that money towards bills and other things", just do it for three months and I promise you, the Lord will provide. He might even bless you more abundantly! Make a conscience effort to do it and, trust me, your obedience will be honored.

DEBT FREE!

2010-04-01T07:54:00.000-07:00

Jason and I are DEBT FREE!!! WOOHOO!!! We paid off the car last night.

P.S. We didn't just take this picture. It was taken when we finished our 365 picture project, but I think the meaning behind the picture is the same, don't you?

P.S.S. Even though this is April Fool's Day, it's no joke!

Happy Birthday, Momma!

2010-03-31T06:02:00.000-07:00

Here are some reasons why I love you:

1. You have always had great fashion sense: classic with a hint of trendy.
2. You never once thought it was stupid or ridiculous that I wanted to be a singer/actress. It didn't matter what I was going to make for a living, but that I was doing what God intended for me to do.

3. You love being a mother with all your heart. It's what you wanted to be when you were little and you do it wholeheartedly. You have no regrets on focusing on motherhood rather than becoming a business woman.

"I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always
As long as you're living
my mommy you'll be!"

Jennifer's Day!

2010-03-26T16:44:00.001-07:00

Today is my sweet, beautiful friend, Jen's, birthday. Technically I've known Jen since 2003 when I was an apprentice with the Players; however, it wasn't until about four years ago that I truly got to KNOW Jen.

She's such a huge part of my life. She led Jason and I to our current church that are members of. She gave me a place to stay for three months before my wedding before I moved into the apartment. She's constantly a spiritual support to me in my time of need. She's always asking what she can do for me. She's one my the BEST actresses I know in Houston. I could just go on and on about her.

Jen - I hope you're not embarrassed by this mushy post. I just love you so much and just can't tell you enough how incredibly amazing you are, not just to me, but everyone you meet. You deserve the world and I am just SO humbled that God chose me as one of your friends. WOW! He chose me. How lucky am I?

I LOVE YOU! - Me

Medium type of day

2010-03-23T18:14:00.000-07:00

Today was a medium type of day. Do you ever have those? Not bad but not good either. Today was one of those. There are many things I could complain about:

- The leak in the bathroom still isn't fixed
- Everyone seems to be involved in a show except me
- No day off this week
- Zit on my chin
- A little bit of a sore throat
- My company is not in a good place right now: mentally, spiritually, financially....
- 1,000 more reasons.....

But I spoke with a friend who was not doing so well, and it wasn't just 'zit on the chin', it was ouch! And you know what, my heart hurt for my friend. I felt so sorry for the current position they were in. I really was put in my place a little bit and I think that that was exactly what God wanted. I had to see my position through someone else's eyes. No matter where we are, there is always someone out there that has it worst, right? 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, "give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." How humbling is that? My problems just don't seem that significant now.

I AM SO BLESSED!

Spring is here????

2010-03-21T16:21:00.000-07:00

What's going on Houston? This is crazy weather: over 30 mph wind gusts and high of 50 degrees? I just can't remember the last time it was cool during the end of March. I thought, for sure, the heat was headed our way. Well, at least this means I get to break out the winter wear just one more time. I thought I did ok today....Sweater - Macy's ($12)

Jeans - Forever 21 ($9.50)
Boots - Steve Madden (Christmas gift from Jason)
White gloves w/ open fingers - Target (Stocking stuffer from Mom)
Hat - Stole from a musical I was in, oops. (free)

She & Him

2010-03-19T08:47:00.000-07:00

As previously stated in my other blog, I love Zooey Deschanel. (Shamelessly, she's probably the main reason I got bangs. Alas, she looks WAY cuter with them and I'm growing them out.) Her and M. Ward are the band She & Him and I just totally dig their music. Super fun! Their second album comes out March 23rd and I've been listening to it for free on NPR. (Thanks, Hannah!!) Check it out! They're playing SXSW in Austin right now now and I SO WISH I could drive up to see them. (sigh) Some day.

Inner Monologue

2010-03-18T15:55:00.000-07:00

The cast list came up today and my name wasn't on it. Jason's wasn't either, so you can imagine the atmosphere around the apt. is a little static. We both take casting personally. I mean, come on, you can't help it. Acting is nothing BUT personal. It involves your ego, emotions, heart...

We'll get over it. All actors usually do. It comes with the territory. Tomorrow is a new day and a new show is right around the corner, but right now my inner monologue is one of a crazy person's:

"Why wasn't I cast? It's ok. You're a good actress. Obviously not because I wasn't cast. You can't win all, Abby. God has a plan. He knows what He's doing. But why does it have to be painful? I suck! POOP! POOP! POOP! What did I do wrong? Does Meryl, Sandra, Julia ever have low self-esteem? Stop blogging about your insignificant sorrows when people all around the world are in worst situations than you. Man, I'm selfish. God loves me. God has a plan. Just get through today. When's Jason getting home? How's he doing? Lord, be with him tonight. Ouch, my ego's bruised. God has a plan. Ouch! Pity Parties are fun. God has a plan."

God has a plan. He does.

Alright, Lord, I'm yours. What's next?

P.S. Those that I work with that read this blog, please know that I really am happy for the actors that got cast. Jason is too. I can't wait to see your work on our stages. These shows really are going to fantastic!

P.S.S. Mom, I'm not depressed. I'm ok. My blog is called "Living the Examined Life" so I just have to be honest. I love you! muwah!

Dancing in the Sun with a Pixie

2010-03-17T14:01:00.000-07:00

These past few days of work have been a little weird and tense. A cast list of Little Foxes still hasn't gone up. People are chomping at the bit here. It's crazy.

Any ways, today Deb and I sat in the beautiful sunshine for lunch with my IPod blaring, well, not blaring but adding ambiance. We had so much fun laughing, singing, dancing, eating strawberries... I felt a little bit that I was back at college playing hookie from class.

My IPod was on shuffle but I'm pretty sure God was directing these songs to play because they were SO US:

- Fifth Dimension, "Age of Aquarius"
- Cabaret (Alan Cummings) "Two Ladies"
- Kristin Chenoweth, "Sing"
- The Chiffons, "One Fine Day"
- Detektivbyran, "Nattoppet"

Meet Mimi

2010-03-15T20:14:00.001-07:00

This is my Mimi, or rather Aunt Mary, but she's NEVER been Aunt Mary to me, always Mimi. She is my mother's sister and has been a kindred spirit, confidant, and support to me my whole life. Without fail she has visited us each and every year. (She even traveled with a broken ankle to see us. WOW.) My brother and I have been completed spoiled by her visits and now Jason gets to look forward to them too.

We've had a fun time hanging out. She saw our shows, we watched the 60's classic Valley of the Dolls with Patty Duke last night and today we saw Alice in Wonderland at the movies. Not half bad, Tim Burton. Helen, as the Red Queen, was hysteric. I think it was definitely worth the $5 we paid for the matinee performance. Any ways, back to Mimi....

I love her to death. I only hope that I can be half the aunt she has been to me. Hear that Josh and Dina...get on it! I want to be BeeBee, Aunt BeeBee. Abby might be too hard to say, so I'll settle for BeeBee. I mean, come on, how cute is that??

LOVE YOU, MIMI! Thanks for all the pen-pal letters, the funny pictures, late night talks, amazing gifts and the four leaf clover you found, pressed and made into a bookmark for me. God broke the mold with you. Keep on being yourself, even if people hush you or tell you your sweater is stupid. Trust your gut and be confident in the women I've always known you were.

Introducing...

2010-03-12T19:31:00.000-08:00

...my BANGS! YAY! I finally got them done. I told Louise, my hair stylist, that I would regret it if I didn't do it. It was fun today having the co-workers look at me for about 5 seconds, thinking, "Something's different about your hair." Not sure if I'm 100% loving them yet, so we'll just wait and see a few more days until the final verdict. Aren't haircuts refreshing? (sigh)

How awesome is this?

2010-03-10T19:45:00.000-08:00

Bedtime Story, "The Pipe Goblins"

2010-03-09T19:25:00.001-08:00

Well, Boys and Girls, it's that special part of the day, story time with Aunt Abby. So, go grab your blankies and that last cup of wa-wa and snuggle up for the bedtime story called, "The Pipe Goblins." Are you ready? Ok, let's begin.

Once upon a time, there lived a beautiful prince and princess who lived in the land, Strom of the Berg. They had a cozy little one bedroom, one bath apartment that was just perfect for the little couple, after all, these were not ordinary royals. Oh no, this prince and princess were humble and didn't live extravagantly like the other kings and queens in the Berg. They welcomed anyone and everyone into their home sweet home. In fact, they were such, nice royals that they were even mistaken as common townsfolk to most people.

Well, little did they know that they were not the only ones living in that apartment. Oh, no, pipe goblins, who live in the water pipes, were occupying their bathroom. Those pipe goblins were so cruel. They ate holes in the pipes so that water would trickle out of them and into the apartment. The beautiful princess noticed the water over their royal commode one day dripping down on the beautiful royal blue, commode cover. "Dear me," she cried, "we had such a nice place until the pipe goblins attacked."

Well, they weren't ready to give up a fight. The brave prince and the courageous princess fought like...um...fought like THE DICKENS to kill the pipe goblins. You know why, kids? Because they would not settle with living with a trashcan on their commode. NO! They would not live with the possibility of the goblins dripping water on them while they were, well, you know. They do not care how many times they have to call the Lady of the Land's boyfriend to check on the progress. The Goblins Will Be Vanquished!

So, boys and girls. That's the end of our story for tonight. What will happen to the prince and princess, I wonder? Will their beautiful home ever get saved? Stay tuned for the next chapter of "The Pipe Goblins" at a later time. Nighty night and sweet dreams.

My Recessive Gene

2010-03-08T17:28:00.000-08:00

I can't believe I'm about to say it...(sigh)...never in a million years have I had this thought...I wish it was warmer outside. Living in Houston, this has NEVER been a problem. It's ALWAYS warm and summer is just plain distinguishing here; however, this winter has been a record cold. It's March 8th and I had to wear a sweater today. Now, don't get me wrong, I love warm clothes, comfy sweaters, cold sheets, and wool hats. Cool/Cold = my heaven on earth, but....

I have dry skin. Always have. You see, I got the recessive gene in my family. My dad, mom and brother are all tall and skinny, with oily-er skin and I am the polar opposite: short, round and the Sahara Desert for a face. (The good thing is I never had acne or a bad complexion, which I AM thankful for.) My dry skin just seems to get worst as I age. I've noticed my scalp being dry and my arms having a little bit of eczema on them. As I'm typing this, I'm realizing this is probably more information than you wanted about me. Sorry. But nothing seems to be working, moisturizer, lotion and even Vaseline.

Well, I read this stylist's blog here and got inspired to see what would happen if I only washed my hair every other day. Maybe it would help activate natural oils that I seem to be lacking. So far, so good. I'm styling my hair a little more on the second day because I'm uber, self-conscience of nasty hair. I really like my hair. It's something about me that I really like, so today I took the time to curl it in rollers. All my students were like, "Mrs. Abby, you're so pretty today!" I wanted to reply, "So, every other week, I'm chopped liver?" hehe. Kids!

Weekend Blog

2010-03-07T18:27:00.001-08:00

I had a pretty busy weekend. All day Saturday was spent at work doing a staged reading of a play. I liked the play a lot but am SOOOO glad it's over and done.

Jason and I went to dinner together for the first time in a week on Saturday. It was heavenly. We've been so busy with work that our schedules never allowed us to eat dinner together. I'll repeat: it was heavenly.
Tonight I made cranberry chicken from a new recipe. It only had three ingredients, so I knew I was going to like it regardless of how it tasted. All you need is chicken breasts, can of whole berry cranberry sauce, and two packets of dried, onion soup mix.
You mix the cranberries and the soup mix together and pour it over the chicken. (I turned the chicken once to coat the chicken.) Cover it in foil and bake at 350 for 40 minutes. Jason's not a big fan of onions but he didn't mind this. We tasted more of the onions than the cranberries, so if I make it next time, I'm only using one mix pouch. It wasn't great but it wasn't bad. Definitely a different way to eat chicken. Next time, I might keep the cranberries but mix it with something else.

We're watching the Oscars right now, both in our sweats. (sigh) He gets a day off but I go back into the grind tomorrow. Hope your weekend was a good one! Happy 2nd week in March!

Little Foxes Auditions

2010-03-04T10:33:00.001-08:00

Today my company is auditioning our resident actors for our up-coming production of Lillian Hellman's The Little Foxes. There is an extra bit of energy in every one's steps this week. I think because it's a fantastically written play, every one is secretly dying to be in it. The characters are strong, the story is powerful and it's a period piece: what more could an actor ask for?

There was a movie version on this play starring Bette Davis. Here she is pictured as Regina Gibbons, the matriarch controller of the family.

Auditioning for plays is the reason I'm at this company. There's nothing cut-throat about it. Everyone supports and cheers for each other. The actors are like a family to me. Generally, we all just want the show to be good, whether that includes us or not.

I'll let y'all know the results when we know the cast list! BREAK A LEG EVERYONE!

Wednesday Win!

2010-03-03T14:22:00.000-08:00

I won five Mission Burritos because my business card was drawn out of the give-away bowl! Now, I know what you're thinking and, NO, I did not eat all five burritos, even though I could have. I invited my hub and my fellow co-workers to partake in the love. WOO HOO!

Thanks, God for the burritos and the little blessing on this gorgeous Wednesday!